GL next time dude.
By the way, here's an advice from a kid that...
Succesfully asked out the #1 girl at 2nd grade
Made it last until 5th grade
And is still friends.
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She was shy towards new people. In this case, you either go mundanely or all-at-once
I did the mundane method.
When she drops something, I would "happen" to be at that place and pick it up for her, give a little smile. When I have candies, I would pretend that I don't like that candy and give it to a few girls including her. That way, she won't think that I like her. Now, do this for around 10 days, and she started to talk to me. She knew that I'm really smart, so she wanted help on the math homework. I gladly accepted, gave her it, and she gave me a little smile, with a thanks!
^^^^^^^^^^ - That process is the base. We're now something called "friends" we're not too tight yet, but now, here comes the all-in-once
First of all, I talked to my friends that I'm asking a girl out. Just to tell you, there's a lot of males that were good looking than me (since I was short, as in the shortest kid in my grade). I would ask them to look at me. I did it during lunch, when I won't have distractions of her friends. I came up to her, kissed her hand, and said "I think I love you, would you go out with me?" She wasn't that shy. This method works if the girls are shy, since if they're shy, they'll feel that it's mean to reject it. But she said that she'll think about it.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ that's like the walls with holes (holes for windows and doors to go in) that holes, are basically other males trying to ask her out.
Now, around a week from that proposal, there came my chance. It was a poetry thingy. You have to describe something that you like, and make it seem like a food. Most of the people did like chicken, beef, pork, and all those "un-creative" things.
What I did, was I described her. Here was the poem. Note: [Name] is her name.
Title: [Name] a la carte
Sexy [Name]
Hot [Name]
Burnin' [Name]
Cold [Name]
Tasty [Name]
[Name] a la carte
My favorite [Name]
Now, if you think this is stupid, this will be stupid for 8th graders. This is really effective if you're young.
The class cracked up, even the teacher. Even though it was sort of sexual harassment, [Name] insisted that I wasn't doing it for real, and that I shouldn't get in trouble. The teacher agreed. Next was lunch, she came up to me, said that the poem was really funny with a big smile. She hugged me, her and my friends left us alone.
^^^^^^^^^^^ That's basically building your windows and doors, but we still don't have the roof, not the locks of the doors/windows. People can still come in and take away my gf.
Now, one thing that was of luck to me, was that her Birthday was exactly 1 week after mine! That's something that she'd easily remember, and that I'd easily remember. At my birthday, she was the first to say Happy Birthday, and she also gave me a friendship bracelet. At her birthday, I said Happy Birthday the fastest I can, and gave her a Swan statue, made out of copper and silver. Note: Her last name had something to do with Swan, which is the reason I did this, and she understood.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I locked my windows and doors
The rest of the year was like that. We were both shy, and we did talk a lot, but we didn't talk too much about "that"
Third Grade: we were in the same class again! She came up to me, said that she's happy to be in the same class as me, kissed me in the cheek. At lunch, I kissed her back in the cheek. Now, maybe that's the key factor, but at Thanks Giving, she invited me to come (like, I was the only one that got invited. no males, no females.) The pro and cons of going to her house is that...
Pro - if you can be friends with her dad, mom, sisters, (brothers won't matter much, since brothers will taunt her saying something like you like XXX) and maybe pets.
Cons - if you're already hated via their dad and mom, that's a bad sign.
The greatest thing, was that her dad, and I both watch wrestling. (She also loved wrestling, which I didn't know) That gave me a big hint for her birthday present coming up in a few week. Yes, I'd order a WWE item (WWE means world wrestling entertainment, which is the wrestling we watch) She also told me she loves John Cena, so I got her a John Cena wristband, navy style. (Note: Her parents were both navies, and she had great respect for navies) Yes, she loved it. I remember her putting it on her for almost every day, until at 4th grade when it snapped.
Now, another major thing occurred. At June, a girl invited me to a pool party. I knew her, and I knew that she's a best friend of [Name] Knowing that, I asked who's in there. She said 5 names of girls, 1 which I don't know, and 1 named [Name]. I knew she's in there, and I gladly accepted it. Now, at the pool party, we went to the conversation of how I'm the only boy here. I wondered why she invited me, so I talked to her privately. She said that [Name] insisted on me coming. Yay me!! She finally accepted me as a boy friend.
~ Like that. You don't have to be the best kid in school to ask out the hottest girl in school. Just read her mind, play a little psycology